During my hunt for a master thesis topic, I stumbled over the book "Rumors and Rumor Control" by Allan J. Kimmel. There he mentiones the ten cardinal rules of gossip. Here they come:
- Everyone gossips. Even if you´ve just stood around listening, it´s tantamount to gossiping.
- No one ever asks if the information is true. Everyone assumes that it is.
- The greater the potential damage, the faster the gossip travels.
- The more you try to tell people that the gossip is not true, the more they will believe it is.
- Major decisions have been based on gossip. When the decision turns out to be bad, gossipy rumors arise to explain the bad decision.
- Of all forms of communication, gossip is the most easily distorted.
- Men gossip just as much as women, and gossip is filtered through socioeconomic strata by both genders.
- People gossip to protect their own reputations. When the focus is on someone else, one receives a momentary reprieve.
- The more demeaning or hurtful the gossip, the longer it takes for the victim to hear about it.
- Gossip thrives in an atmoshpere of secrecy and competition. It tends to thrive most where there is too much secrecy and where advancement is based on overcompetition.
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and what are the implications for AIESEC conferences?
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